"If you are going to spend the majority of your time and life together, why not thrive?"

I am well on the road to certification in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the most effective couples theory in the world. Using an integration of holistic studies - my focus is supporting each person with getting clarity on their personal blockages and how it influences the patterns with their partner.

So many times couples come to counseling to "save" their relationship. By this time, the Wall of Resentment may be high.

"Couples do not break up because they don't love each other, it's because the Wall of resentment is so high, they can no longer see the love."

There is a remedy to breaking down that Wall: Communication, Compassion, and Consistency. By taking the time to truly share and understand each person's thoughts and feelings - you take the steps towards all three. And when you have all three - those bricks in that Wall of Resentment come tumbling down.  

Let's find the joy. The trust. And rebuild it if that's what is needed.